Yesterday marked 9 years I have been married to my best friend! What a wonderful 9 years with many amazing things! To have a man who works hard for us and still does his very best to make sure we have all our wants just as much as our needs. He is a God fearing man and a wonderful leader.
I am so blessed to have his 100% support as we gear up for the journey of surrogacy. And his support on our journey in life together.
We are still waiting for my Ips to have an appointment set up for their initial visit to the new clinic.
As one part of our busy life comes to and end we look forward to the next. Every day is a new day but some times it feels as if we just wake up to go right back to sleep. But we learn to make the most of each day and enjoy the time. Like this weekend as we celebrated my son’s 8th birthday with family and friends. It was wonderful to have so many come out and fellowship with us and to see my children enjoy their friends as well I enjoyed mine.
I loved make my son’s party and doing the planning (this I start in January)
next on the planning my daughter 7th birthday party, while we incubate 11 chicken eggs for her ( mommy’s way of making up for the 4-h mishap). once her wonderful celebration is done we move on to planning our family cruise. I love writing everything out and planning even if its doesn’t always go to plan. 9 times out 10 nothing goes to our plans but I’m ok with that.
sometimes planning helps me when I must wait for something to happen. Right now we are waiting for my IPs to have their visit with the clinic near me and hopefully then we can meet in person. I really do have a hard time waiting but I know the wait will be worth it all.
Friday 4/15/16 will be my husbands and mine 9th wedding Anniversary. I waited for him for many many years and am so blessed that I did.
Sometimes it’s not hard to feel like a bad mom. Sometimes we get so busy just being a mom or a wife or just a person that things may fall by the waste side without even realizing it. Well this has happened to me this week😞 and on top of it the little one I dropped the ball on is sick with strap. My little girl is wanting to raise a baby animal so bad that I decided to put her in a 4-h project thinking I had plenty of time since the chicks wouldn’t be ready til end of April. I was way off!
So now this mommy is going to set up a project herself! And try again with 4-h later. We aren’t bad mommies when we forget something just busy mommy and I have learned they will forgive us.
Surrogacy related: I have an appointment with a new obgyn this week and soon my Ips will be visiting the Clinic and see where we go from here. I will also be picking up my medical records from my old obgyn.